Q Would you sign a prenuptial agreement if asked?

A Nuptial means a celebration. Do you sign an agreement before the wedding party? Of course, everyone signs the state’s prenuptial agreement and many people also sign some religious contract. The question is, are you creating your own rules or only following ancient religious rules or standard rules created by the state. To not discuss financials matters when you’re merging two individuals in perpetuity is irresponsible. Most marriages end based on 2 things: Money and Sex. If you’re not going to address these issues, you’re doomed and this one handles 50% of it. Everyone signs an agreement no matter what including one with the government and sometimes one with religion. This is just another agreement.

Q What’s a good way to get back at my no-good, lying, sack of sh*t ex for cheating on me?

A Getting back is a waste of time. Be focused on having a great life. Since you had a sack of **** ex, it means you weren’t having a good life. Focus on having an awesome life. Part of a good life is having someone who is cool. Trying to get back at them does you no good. Getting back at him means, he’s back in your life. Move on with your life and stop dealing with sacks of shits.

Q I confronted my husband and told him I don't want him looking at porn?

A First of all, Dr. Phil and I couldn’t disagree more. Everyone has fantasies. To deny the existence of fantasies or to call them evil is a crime against nature and humanity. This person is pursuing and exploring his fantasies without introducing other people into your relationship. Watch the movies with him and see what turns him on. Then, role play with each other. Instead of being uptight, explore your own fantasies. Maybe you have fantasies of your own? If not, understand that fantasizing is not doing and maybe able to enhance your sex life.

Q If both me and my wife are thinking about becoming swingers is that bad for the marriage?

A Introducing other people into your marriage can create instability. If your marriage is stable and you’re both secure and trust each other, then you should be able to handle that instability, though you may have some initial arguments and jealous situations. If you’re able to successfully bring other people into your relationship, your relationship can be stronger and more rewarding. Plus, your sex life will be better. There are millions of swingers that have great relationships with their spouses.

Take it slow. Go to a party, observe and meet some couples. Don’t go to your first party and get wild. If you can enter the swinger world successfully, it can help expand your horizons and fulfill your curiosity and light another spark in your sex life. In work , health, and life in general the the more difficult hard work option is often more rewarding than the easy way. The same is true for relationships. Being a swinger is challenging, but the rewards can be more than worth it.

Q Do threesomes destroy relationships? Dr. Phil thinks they do Link

A If done successfully, threesomes or bringing other couples into your relationship can help the relationship out a lot more than it can hurt it. Statistically speaking it is monotony (I mean monogamy) that destroys relationships. 50% of all traditional marriages end in divorce. While most swingers claim that swinging improved their relationship.

Most couples find themselves in a deeper love the day after a swinger party. Thinking your partner could be with a another lover creates the incentive to stay in shape, look better, treat your partner better, and perform better in bed. Just like with anything else, competition breeds improvements. And if you are a solid couple, it is unlikely that some great sexual experience will incentive you to leave your partner with whom you have a built a life together. Unlike what Dr. Phil think, it’s not about finding someone better for whom to leave your partner with. It’s about bettering yourself for your partner and about having great experiences with your partner that will bring you closer together.

In the example at http://drphil.com/shows/show/943/ , Walt and his wife were a stable swinger couple for over 10 years without any problems. That is the typical swinger couple. At the beginning its can be tricky, but good couples work it out and become stable for many many years. Walt and Nina now are working on rewriting the arrangement which will cause some fights and discussions, but they will work it out and then probably be happy and stable for another 10 years as a swinger couple.

Q What is more important is that Dr. Phil is no help for them. Dr Phil tells them they are devious crazy people who should cast aside fantasies and hibernate away from their exciting lifestyle. Solid loving relationships that have had a taste of fun are not attracted to Dr. Phil’s negative and uninspiring suggestions. I can only get off when there is a vibrator.

Q I can't get off the regular way as in just doing it, or getting eatin out, or just hand to clit stimulation. Do i have a problem that I need a vibrator to get off ??

A Use the vibrator to bring you close to the edge and then make yourself cum with another method. you may lose the orgasm after you switch off the vibrator, but after some practice you will make it work and then you can start switching off the vibrator earlier and earlier. Being addicted to one position or one method for orgasm is common, but it is healthier to be able to orgasm in different ways. With practice you can find new ways to reach orgasm